If you are concerned about a parent's memory loss or similar changes, you are not alone. Memory loss is an increasing concern of older people and can signal a genuine medical problem. You are to be commended for caring for your parent's well-being and seeking more information.

Many adult children of older parents notice things about one of their parents that seem a little unusual or not quite right.

"Dad keeps repeating questions. I used to think it was his hearing, but he had his hearing checked and it's fine. It seems like he just can't remember anything anymore."

"The last time I visited my mother I noticed a lot of spoiled food in the refrigerator. And I found the milk in the cupboard! When I asked about it she just laughed and made a joke of it. But I'm really beginning to wonder what's going on with her."

If someone hears and acknowledges the answer to a question, but repeats the question a short time later, it may indicate memory loss. Other changes can signal memory loss. If an older person keeps spoiled food in the refrigerator, even though she would never have done so in the past, it may be because she doesn't remember how long it has been there.

Adult children who see their parents often may overlook memory loss and other changes because the changes occur gradually over time. Adult children who do not see their parents often may be more likely to notice changes.

Adult children who spend extended periods of time with their parents are also more likely to notice memory loss or changes that may indicate a problem. Persons with memory loss or difficulty with thinking skills can often compensate or "cover up" these problems for short visits or social situations.

Finding out the reason for memory loss is very important! Many things can cause symptoms of memory loss, including depression, anxiety, too much to do, medications, disease, or one of many other factors. The first step in determining the cause is obtaining a complete medical evaluation of your parent. No matter what the physician finds, information is power. You may find that your concerns can be easily addressed. Should it turn out that your parent has the beginning of Alzheimer's or a similar disease, treatment is available to delay the progression of symptoms. Information and support are also readily available to help you plan and preserve quality of life for you and your parent.

If you would like to discuss your concerns with someone, the Alzheimer's Association is ready to listen. They can help you decide if follow-up is needed, whether and how to discuss your concern with your parent, places to go for memory screening or assessment, and other questions or concerns you may have about your parent. Call...